Isn’t everything just like this? It hurts but we still can’t help fucking loving it. Life does not have a definition but we need to find something meaningful on our own.
因为太能与女儿和女性看护角色共情对老人角色的代入感被削弱了对女儿和妻子道德绑架言语打压(“not very intelligent like her mom”)的老人不就是几十年后我爸的样子年轻女性在(男性)老人面前是温柔体贴委曲求全的而年轻男性却有对其进行威慑性对话的可能正如我在姥爷和他的子女以及我爸和他父母身上观察到的Caregiving experience under patriarchy is very gendered.